Outcomes cannot be controlled, so what you are aiming for is somewhat paradoxical. Maybe with effort and persistence, they will materialize. And maybe not. The great judges have a plan, even if it is hard to understand.
But what does work is the value of your pillars, because they are what really moves and maintains. Pillars have a reason, they are in you to make you better and keep you going through the storms.
A family to take care of, among all ambitions, is the strongest.
